If the husband went abroad for some sacred duty, she must wait for
him eight years, if he went to acquire learning or fame, six years, if he went for
pleasure, three years. 78. Though this law found in Manu is in considerable
agreement with Kautilya, we find certain variations.
Disrespect of a wife for her husband is punishable by law by deserting
her for three months and depriving her of her ornaments and furniture. 79 But if the,
husband be a mad man, or an outcast, she is not punishable by law. 80
Remarriage of a man is allowed only under certain conditions: if the
wife is barren, he can remarry after abandoning her, in the eighth year; if all her
children die, in the tenth; if a woman bears only daughters, in the eleventh if she is a
quarrelsome wife, without delay. 81
Marriage was indissoluble, if it had been solemnized once before the
sacred fire, and go neither by sale nor by repudiation is a wife released from her
husband; 82 and Manu quotes the authority of the Vedas, declaring the oneness of a
husband and wife.
Thus says the Veda, and learned Brahmanas propound this maxim
likewise, "the husband is declared to be one with the wife". 83 Manu, too,
propounds the rule mentioned in the Satapatha Brahmana, by which a wife has to eat after
her husband: Let him not eat in the company of his wife. 84 The custom is
religiously observed even to-day if many parts of India.
Long discourses, expounding the wicked nature of women and warning
students and men against falling victims to their snares, appear in Manu. The
following appears in connection with the rules to be followed by a student : Let him
not perform for a wife of his teacher the offices of anointing her, assisting her in the
bath, shampooing her limbs or arranging her hair.85