You can
experiment it any day or every day. Decide that today you will accept everything as it
comes. This does not mean that you do not take
appropriate action. Let us take the worst case scenario.
Your house is on fire. If you do not accept it to the
extent that you go mad you cannot take any action.
Take a deep breath and then accept the fact that the house
is on fire. In medical terms it is said that you may fall into denial phase specially if
you hear a bad news typically "you have cancer."
However, once you accept the fact that the house is on
fire, after you have taken a deep breath, you can try to get the support services
available to deal with the fire.
It is quite obvious in this instance that the appropriate
action is to accept and then respond.
But, in smaller situations at home, the ones with your son
, the ones with yourdaughter, you fail to realize that taking a deep breath is the trick
for happiness. |