The giver of the seed carries off the son after death
in Yama’s world; therefore they guard their wives, fearing the seed
of strangers. Carefully watch over the procreation of your children,
lest stranger's seed be sown on your soil. In the next world the son
belongs to the begetter ; an imprudent husband makes the begetting of
children vain for himself.’ This eschatological notion, which can be
traced even in works earlier than Apastamba, is responsible for the
seclusion of women that came into force in the society of his time.
Transgressions of the law and violence are found
amongst the ancient sages: ‘They committed no sin on account of the
greatness of their lustre.’ ‘A mail of later times who, seeing
their deeds, follows them, falls.’ 'The gift or acceptance of
a, child and the right to sell or buy a child are not recognised as
legal’. 101
So Apastamba rules out the usages of the past and
proclaims them archaic for his times, the transgressors being
castigated as sinners. He further introduces a custom that has not
been referred to by his predecessors: he says, ‘It is declared in
the Veda that at the time of marriage a gift for the fulfilment of his
wishes, should be made by the bridegroom to the father of the bride,
in order to fulfill the law.’
‘Therefore he should give a hundred cows besides a
chariot; that gift he should make bootless by returning it to the
giver.’ ‘In reference to these marriage rites, the word "
sale "which occurs in some Smrtis is only used as a metaphorical
expression; for the union of the husband and wife is effected through
the law’. 102
The above not only repudiates the system of giving dowry to the
bridegroom, but reverses the order; for here it is for the bridegroom
to give some thing before the marriage.